Inside the hectic life of Australia’s biggest family
One thing was clear to Jeni when she first met her husband Ray: she had no desire to have children.
Ray desired a minimum of four children. That struck me as absurd. For example, who has that many kids? Jeni informed Mamamia.
They are now the delighted parents of sixteen children, more than thirty years later.
Weekly grocery expenditures of $600
You may have heard of them if you’re from Australia, but when I first started reading about the Bonell Family, it was rather shocking to me.
Raising 16 children in Australia, the Bonell family’s life is anything but typical. Jeni and Ray Bonell have mastered the skill of juggling everything, from taking care of their huge brood to managing the turmoil of everyday life, and they do it with a healthy dose of humor.
Jesse, 35, Brooke, 34, Claire, 31, Natalie, 30, Karl, 28, Samuel, 26, Cameron, 25, Sabrina, 24, Tim, 22, Brandon, 20, Eve, 19, Nate, 17, Rachel, 16, Eric, 15, Damian, 14, and Katelyn, 10 are the nine boys and seven girls that make up the Bonell family from Toowoomba, Queensland.
Jim Gaffigan, a comedian, once made a joke on what it’s like to have a fourth child. Imagine being handed a baby by someone when you are drowning. What is it like to have sixteen children, then?
In order to keep their pantry filled, Jeni, the mother in charge, spends an incredible $600 each week on groceries. That budget has increased by $50 as a result of the severe inflation. It takes a lot to keep everyone fed in a family of eighteen, including eight children who are still living at home.
The weekly grocery list is very amazing: Four dozen eggs, fifteen boxes of cereal, forty-five tubs of yogurt, and seventeen three-liter bottles of milk.
“We consume one to two loaves of bread every day and fifty liters of milk every week,” Jeni says.
It’s challenging to get a good family shot.
For the Bonells, it’s all a part of the routine, but for others, it’s a logistical nightmare. The routine of the Bonell family’s home life is meticulously planned.
Jeni laughs and says, “It’s hard to get a good family photo.” There’s always someone with their eyes closed, making a goofy expression, or averting their gaze, therefore you need an extra-wide lens. However, we like those small eccentricities in the pictures. Although they aren’t picture-perfect, that adds to the enjoyment.
Keeping up with the hectic pace of everyday life is more important than simply capturing pictures when you have sixteen children.
Imagine managing a household with 16 children, a full-time job, and part-time jobs. That’s Jeni and Ray’s reality.
“I used to think that having young children kept me busy, but now that I have older kids, I’m definitely busier,” Jeni adds. It’s a balancing act to manage three separate schools, extracurricular activities, part-time jobs, and the academics of the older children. Jeni wouldn’t have it any other way, though. “Life is good, even though it’s very hectic.”
The Bonell family dynamic is perfectly reflected in their nighttime routine. Jeni chuckles and says, “Our evening routine is like multiplying an average-sized family by eight.”
Making the most of every dollar
There are evenings when everything runs like a well-oiled machine and nights when there is complete mayhem. But one thing never changes no matter how the evening goes: dinnertime. Jeni says, “Dinner is always great.” “We have eight people at the table some nights, and over twenty others on others!”
The Bonells are experts at making the most of every penny. Jeni is well-known for her inexpensive lunches, which often range from $2 to $10. To assist others in controlling their food expenses, she frequently posts about her grocery shopping trips on YouTube.
Jeni says, “Everyone is struggling right now; we’re all feeling the pinch with the budget.” Jeni divides home chores using a chore chart to keep things organized and ensure that everyone, starting at age eight, contributes.